Gaining

When I dated a non Feedee who accidentally gained I also gained. In being with her I showed support by only going to the gym with her. We never made more than two workouts in any given week.We took breaks "until ...such and such a date" and ended up turning 21/2 weeks around Christmas into going back the middle of March.And we Ate together both big portions and Fattening stuff.And late night.
So I think his focus on You is blinding him a little. I'm curious though why you aren't succeeding? Any theories?

Oh Dang!
Especially the Brownies part.
I hope everything starts getting more gain-friendly soon.

Keep eating! I have been a subtle gained now for a little over a year. Putting on around ten pounds, waist is up to 45 inches and heavy in my butt too. My wife is a BBW. She tried to diet/change eating habits last winter. She ate veggies and salads, I ate pasta, burgers etc. She has now given up and seems to be eating normally again. I buy her favorite "goodies" (Nutela, etc.) and we did eat a fair amount of Halloween candy. So keep at it, the pounds will come!